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&&toasties
07-29-2009, 11:50 PM
I won't be getting on much, because of serious issues at home.
Recently, I was attacked, physically, by a friend of one of my roommates, and I was kicked out of the home, because I threatened to file a police report. I brought my things over to my mothers house, just to stay for a while, but my step-father threw a fit.
He locked my mom out of the house, he took her bank card and book, threw my cat outside, turned off our phones, and left us with nothing. I am sitting in a hotel at the moment, on my mothers laptop she had previously took and hid in her car.
All of this happened while I was at work.
So yea, I know certain people are going to say I'm fishing for pity and what-not, but I do feel like my friends need to know what is going on so no one worries. I don't want pity, I just want people I care about to know.
Anyways, I'll update you guys.
^^
Nemesis
07-30-2009, 12:37 AM
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is the cat ok?
inthebutt
07-30-2009, 01:36 AM
autumn, seriously all IBIS drama aside. I really hope things work out for you or at least get better.
good luck :wtg:
THE HOLY SH**T!
07-30-2009, 04:51 AM
what inthebutt said...
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is the cat ok?
lmfao...
I hope everything will be okay D:
ily<3
XxMastagunzxX
07-30-2009, 05:52 AM
If I were you I would still file the police report then go kick your step dad i the nuts. Hope it works out.
mastercheff
07-30-2009, 07:09 AM
if i were you i would had been that spartan in 300 and kick him in the balls and kick him out of the house but i really hope it gets better best wishes to your situation <3 of all the things to happen to you it has to be this ='( well best of wishes
Christmas
07-30-2009, 10:36 AM
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is the cat ok?
The cat is fine, Autumn has it now.
So your dad got pissed that you came home or was he mad about something else? Also, be sure to file that police report and be sure to tell them that you even got kicked out of your own place because of it, such information will result in the cops being much harder on them. In addition, are you and your roommate both signed on the lease to the apartment? If so how did they kick you out, did they take your key away or what? I am sure you can file charges against them as well and possibly even civil charges for breach of contract. Especially considering that they tried to blackmail you.
Lastly, although he threw a fit and took all the money it is good that you got away with that. The most important thing is that you and your mother are physically safe. People can take money and do terrible things to you but you can never let them take your soul.
mastercheff
07-30-2009, 11:41 AM
So your dad got pissed that you came home or was he mad about something else? Also, be sure to file that police report and be sure to tell them that you even got kicked out of your own place because of it, such information will result in the cops being much harder on them. In addition, are you and your roommate both signed on the lease to the apartment? If so how did they kick you out, did they take your key away or what? I am sure you can file charges against them as well and possibly even civil charges for breach of contract. Especially considering that they tried to blackmail you.
Lastly, although he threw a fit and took all the money it is good that you got away with that. The most important thing is that you and your mother are physically safe. People can take money and do terrible things to you but you can never let them take your soul.
what he said but what do you mean when you said he threw a fit?
walterbrunswick
07-30-2009, 01:25 PM
^^
What they said.
Hope the matter is resolved, good luck.
&&toasties
07-30-2009, 03:39 PM
Thank you so much everyone.
And Zero:
No, I was not in a lease. And my mother is saying that what my ex-roomies are now saying is that *I* attacked the woman, and she hit back in self-defense.
On a side note about my mother:
I am very happy for what she did for me...she told my step-dad either I get to live with them for a little while, just so I can get my own place and get on my feet, or my mom files for divorce. She told him me having a home was more important than being married to him.
She's never done this before, so I'm so happy. With this new light, and y'alls support, I really believe I'll get out of this mess.
again, thank you from the bottom of my heart.
^^
ImGonnaGetCha
07-30-2009, 04:08 PM
I won't be getting on much, because of serious issues at home.
Recently, I was attacked, physically, by a friend of one of my roommates, and I was kicked out of the home, because I threatened to file a police report. I brought my things over to my mothers house, just to stay for a while, but my step-father threw a fit.
He locked my mom out of the house, he took her bank card and book, threw my cat outside, turned off our phones, and left us with nothing. I am sitting in a hotel at the moment, on my mothers laptop she had previously took and hid in her car.
All of this happened while I was at work.
So yea, I know certain people are going to say I'm fishing for pity and what-not, but I do feel like my friends need to know what is going on so no one worries. I don't want pity, I just want people I care about to know.
Anyways, I'll update you guys.
^^
Omgsh Chelseaaaa!!!!!!!! Are You and Your Mother Ok!?!?!?!?!?!?! I Have The Chills Now!!!!!!!!!!! Are You Guys Ok!?!?!? I'm Like Shaking Here!!!!!!! You Or/And Your Mom Arent being Abused Are You!?!?!?!?!?!?!? I've Been Through Something Like This Before So I'm Extremly Scared, Just Please Tell Me If You Are Or Not, Please, Because If Thats Happening I Can Help You!!!!!!!
Jeimuzu
07-30-2009, 06:03 PM
Thank you so much everyone.
And Zero:
No, I was not in a lease. And my mother is saying that what my ex-roomies are now saying is that *I* attacked the woman, and she hit back in self-defense.
On a side note about my mother:
I am very happy for what she did for me...she told my step-dad either I get to live with them for a little while, just so I can get my own place and get on my feet, or my mom files for divorce. She told him me having a home was more important than being married to him.
She's never done this before, so I'm so happy. With this new light, and y'alls support, I really believe I'll get out of this mess.
again, thank you from the bottom of my heart.
^^
Someone needs to beat the crap out of your step dad for being an utter idiot. I'm here to talk to if you need anything.
"Pain is temporary, and with that knowledge we have the hope of a new day."
deprodigy
07-30-2009, 06:30 PM
sounds like step-dad controls all the finances. you could offer to pay him a small rent to stay there for a while until you can find a new place. say you're sorry for whatever happened in the past to make him dislike you so much.
say you'll also help out with the chores. don't party so much, save a little bit more money so you can leave sooner and get on with your thing. take over some chores you know he hates (like mowing the lawn, I hate it).
that should work.
Christmas
07-30-2009, 07:32 PM
sounds like step-dad controls all the finances.
He doesn't.
&&toasties
07-30-2009, 07:32 PM
sounds like step-dad controls all the finances. you could offer to pay him a small rent to stay there for a while until you can find a new place. say you're sorry for whatever happened in the past to make him dislike you so much.
say you'll also help out with the chores. don't party so much, save a little bit more money so you can leave sooner and get on with your thing. take over some chores you know he hates (like mowing the lawn, I hate it).
that should work.
I started to already, I paid for dinner...
Now I'm going to work on him turning my phone back on.
This Trac phone is anoying as hell</3
&&toasties
07-30-2009, 07:33 PM
He doesn't.
It's cute how he thinks he does, though.
Curdy
07-30-2009, 11:04 PM
:wishes: from Curdy here
&&toasties
07-31-2009, 12:17 PM
:wishes: from Curdy here
ily<33
Breezy
07-31-2009, 12:51 PM
I started to already, I paid for dinner...
Now I'm going to work on him turning my phone back on.
This Trac phone is anoying as hell</3
Good luck with that, even if this seems to really suck now, when you get out of it.. You not only will feel better, but it makes partying that much more fun :D
weeman2412
07-31-2009, 12:56 PM
This will make it all better
http://thehealthblogger.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/07/cookie.jpg
ManBearPig <ibis>
07-31-2009, 02:15 PM
Lol weeman, your signature is hilarious. Toasties with like maxed out posts... lol.
mastercheff
07-31-2009, 02:23 PM
omg the 99999999999999999999999999999999 post thing made me fall out of my chair lawl its just that awesome
ManBearPig <ibis>
07-31-2009, 02:24 PM
God, people stop falling out of your chairs. Its not good for your health. Get some handles on your desk or some shit.
Omgsh Chelseaaaa!!!!!!!! Are You and Your Mother Ok!?!?!?!?!?!?! I Have The Chills Now!!!!!!!!!!! Are You Guys Ok!?!?!? I'm Like Shaking Here!!!!!!! You Or/And Your Mom Arent being Abused Are You!?!?!?!?!?!?!? I've Been Through Something Like This Before So I'm Extremly Scared, Just Please Tell Me If You Are Or Not, Please, Because If Thats Happening I Can Help You!!!!!!!
Why do you capitalize like every single letter, and then have a bazillion exclamation points and question marks...
lolol.
Weird girl...
I only fell out of chair once on a computer and it was the day HL2 came out and I got to ravenholm and saw a fast zombie for the first time. (had all lights off)
walterbrunswick
08-01-2009, 12:31 AM
I only fell out of chair once on a computer and it was the day HL2 came out and I got to ravenholm and saw a fast zombie for the first time. (had all lights off)
Lol good times.
The shotgun or AR2 assault rifle makes quick work of those fuckers :wtg::assault:
JigSaW
08-01-2009, 01:16 AM
Sorry to hear that Autumn, hope things get better.
But I almost fell out of my chair a few mins ago, I just finished I love you man, fucking hilarious.
"every once in a while i go down to the board walk and throw my own feces like a gorilla "
Christmas
08-03-2009, 10:45 PM
UPDATE
Autumn went to the hospital today for a cyst in her ovaries, and she was there for about 11 hours.
She is scheduled to go back tomorrow and will go at another time in August. They are looking into the option of it being cancerous and if that is the case they will have to perform surgery and remove it.
Just letting everyone know.
walterbrunswick
08-03-2009, 10:49 PM
UPDATE
Autumn went to the hospital today for a cyst in her ovaries, and she was there for about 11 hours.
She is scheduled to go back tomorrow and will go at another time in August. They are looking into the option of it being cancerous and if that is the case they will have to perform surgery and remove it.
Just letting everyone know.
About FUCKING time!
I kept telling her to get that checked out when we were still talking on the phone... scared me to death with that!
Good luck Autumn!
Christmas
08-03-2009, 10:51 PM
Autumn thanks you for the support.
&&toasties
08-04-2009, 11:06 AM
UPDATE
Autumn went to the hospital today for a cyst in her ovaries, and she was there for about 11 hours.
She is scheduled to go back tomorrow and will go at another time in August. They are looking into the option of it being cancerous and if that is the case they will have to perform surgery and remove it.
Just letting everyone know.
there were 2. One was ruptured, which is why I was doubling over in pain. The doctor has me scheduled for 3 follow ups, one being sometime today. I also have to get my insurance situated.
I have to go back on the 17th, then the 2nd of September.
They're going to wait and see if the other cyst grows, and if it does, they'll test it if it's cancerous, and if it is, then they're going to remove it.
XxMastagunzxX
08-04-2009, 11:34 AM
there were 2. One was ruptured, which is why I was doubling over in pain. The doctor has me scheduled for 3 follow ups, one being sometime today. I also have to get my insurance situated.
I have to go back on the 17th, then the 2nd of September.
They're going to wait and see if the other cyst grows, and if it does, they'll test it if it's cancerous, and if it is, then they're going to remove it.
Hopefully it is not cancerous, good luck!
&&toasties
08-04-2009, 02:41 PM
Hopefully it is not cancerous, good luck!
^^<33
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