so ummm, kinda serious question

[acolyte_to_jippity]

i know i tend to come off as an asshole. it's just how i act online. i guess you could say that i just would rather be remember that way, then fade into obscurity. so, i'd understand if i didn't deserve an answer, but i just had to say this, ask it, talk about it.


a few weeks ago, my girlfriend of 2.5 years broke up with me...three days after we had attended her senior prom...and the night i arrived back at college for the week before finals. two weeks ago, after arriving home for the summer, i went to her house to pick up the stuff i'd left w/ her over the years, clothes...hoodies...ect.

Today, i finally went through the big bag of what i thought were just clothes. i found a set of dog tags, she'd been talking about getting me for something, my birthday i believe...and a bracelet i'd gotten engraved for her for our 2-year.
the dog tags said "Adam and Victoria forever" and "1-24-08"(our anniversary)

finding those things showed me that i'de been lying to myself for this entire month. I'm not fine with it. I understand why it can't work between us, but still...

i guess my question is when does it stop hurting?

[DJ_MikeyRevile]

WHEN YOU GE LAID ...but no seriously, go find some pussy bro. then look for a new girl. get active, spend more time occupying your brain to

but get laid trust me

[X 1 Viper1]

WHEN YOU GE LAID ...but no seriously, go find some pussy bro. then look for a new girl. get active, spend more time occupying your brain to

but get laid trust me

Uhm....go find some $10 hoes and video tape you fuckin them, then send it to her. This will make her jealous and want your cock back! :icon_mrgreen:

[Christmas]

WHEN YOU GE LAID ...but no seriously, go find some pussy bro. then look for a new girl. get active, spend more time occupying your brain to

but get laid trust me

This.

Also don't worry about being remembered on the internet. It's the fucking internet.

[Oasis]

Because getting laid solves everything!

Sex is so overrated.

Also, what christmas said was right... who gives a fuck how you act on the internet? Don't go white knight on us all.

[Fireye]

You never get over deep love lost like that. Learn from it, live with it, don't forget it. Pushing it out of your mind won't do you any favors, man up and deal with it.

[loka]

:violin:
Man the fuck up.

[DJ_MikeyRevile]

You never get over deep love lost like that. Learn from it, live with it, don't forget it. Pushing it out of your mind won't do you any favors, man up and deal with it.

actually, he is right, getting laid helps kinda like a temp thing, to forget.. but come the time when you wish you start a new with someone else, use what you learnred from all your past relationships to help you succeed

[XxMastagunzxX]

The pain will never end. You will eventually think about her less and less. But every few days you will remember.

[Christmas]

:violin:
Man the fuck up.

If you are going to say something like this, why even bother?

[StarsMine]

The pain will never end. You will eventually think about her less and less. But every few days you will remember.

This
regret works the same way :/

[acolyte_to_jippity]

actually, he is right, getting laid helps kinda like a temp thing, to forget.. but come the time when you wish you start a new with someone else, use what you learnred from all your past relationships to help you succeed

what past relationships? she's it. junior HS all through Freshman year college

[Christmas]

what past relationships? she's it. junior HS all through Freshman year college

Junior H to freshman college is 2.5 years?

[XxMastagunzxX]

You will think you forgot her until the morning when you wake up by yourself....I need to stop depressing people...

[Nemesis]

you can either remind yourself how it's eating you alive, or you can pretend that it's not eating you alive, end result is pretty much the same. Play the field, eventually you'll get a first round pick, but remember, there will never be another Howe.

[uuntiltheendd]

well the great beyonce knowles once said "if you like it then you should have put a ring on it."

[acolyte_to_jippity]

Junior H to freshman college is 2.5 years?

...yeah. she went to my junior prom, and my senior prom, and i to her senior prom. we started going out in jan, i was a senior for our 1-year, in college for our 2-year, and jun makes it half a year.

[XxMastagunzxX]

We need a broken heart support group and thread here lol

[acolyte_to_jippity]

you can either remind yourself how it's eating you alive, or you can pretend that it's not eating you alive, end result is pretty much the same. Play the field, eventually you'll get a first round pick, but remember, there will never be another Howe.

i don't like sports.

[uuntiltheendd]

no i think we all need to become scientists and learn how to make a chia pet that grows balls so we can give them to him.

seriously theres other people out there.

[Nemesis]

i don't like sports.

well then rent Dear John and fuck cry, seems more your style.

[loka]

Get over it. She will NEVER be out of your mind. EVER. Get over it because you're a DUDE. Dudes don't sulk around about their emotions. They sleep around and hope it will subdue them to find someone better. Women sulk around. You are pretty much aware she wants nothing to do with you now that she gave you the whole enchilada of the gifts and now you're butt hurt about it because there is no second chance or second opportunity in the future.

I SWEAR to GOD you men get anal when you receive back gifts you gave her. Be happy you even got ANYTHING back. It is the ultimate CLOSURE. MOVE ON.

[acolyte_to_jippity]

well then rent Dear John and fuck cry, seems more your style.

no, see, when i said i don't like sports, i mostly meant that any such references would go completely over my head. sorry if that inconveniences you in some way, ass.

[Nemesis]

well, have you ever thought of killing her? and like, keeping the body close by? there's a song about it...

[BladeTwinSwords]

Get over it. She will NEVER be out of your mind. EVER. Get over it because you're a DUDE. Dudes don't sulk around about their emotions. They sleep around and hope it will subdue them to find someone better. Women sulk around. You are pretty much aware she wants nothing to do with you now that she gave you the whole enchilada of the gifts and now you're butt hurt about it because there is no second chance or second opportunity in the future.

I SWEAR to GOD you men get anal when you receive back gifts you gave her. Be happy you even got ANYTHING back. It is the ultimate CLOSURE. MOVE ON.

^ Pretty much.

[Nemesis]

no, see, when i said i don't like sports, i mostly meant that any such references would go completely over my head. sorry if that inconveniences you in some way, ass.

well then, in your terms, game over man, game over.

[uuntiltheendd]

well, have you ever thought of killing her? and like, keeping the body close by? there's a song about it...

i like your style. :wtg:

[XX0wnsXY]

Acolyte, my opinion may not mean much because girls and guys tend to view these things differently, however, it will be a year july 4th since my ex broke up with me and i still hurt. probably more than i should. i know it is not normal to hold on this long, but the fact that i recently went to CA with him and still had some contact with him had a lot to do with it.

my advice tp you is not to have any contact with her. i made the mistake of becoming his friend because after he broke up with me i tried to cut all ties, but that made the hurt worse, at the time. now i wish that i would have, because he is just a reminder of what i fucked up and that i still love him, even though he doesn't deserve it.

i have dated since then and have guys now who would like my attention, but none of them are him, so they are not good enough. it's fucked up and something that i know i have to get over. i tend to keep myself busy and i drown myself heavily in gaming because it occupies my mind. even gamimg was difficult to do for a while since we met in counterstrike 3 years ago.

i feel for you and hope you can work it out.

[maynard]

The pain will never end. You will eventually think about her less and less. But every few days you will remember.

lies. the pain does end. you just move on and forget about it. might take months might take years. but it does end. if it hasn't ended and it's been years, well then it hasn't ended cause you havn't done jack shit in the years the have passed. realize what you felt with the 1 chick, you can do again.. you just have 2 actually do it, and find a chick. if you sit around for years on end being single thinking about the last chick you were with well.. then your setting your self up for a buncha BS> end result, find a new chick and move on.

[acolyte_to_jippity]

Acolyte, my opinion may not mean much because girls and guys tend to view these things differently, however, it will be a year july 4th since my ex broke up with me and i still hurt. probably more than i should. i know it is not normal to hold on this long, but the fact that i recently went to CA with him and still had some contact with him had a lot to do with it.

my advice tp you is not to have any contact with her. i made the mistake of becoming his friend because after he broke up with me i tried to cut all ties, but that made the hurt worse, at the time. now i wish that i would have, because he is just a reminder of what i fucked up and that i still love him, even though he doesn't deserve it.

i have dated since then and have guys now who would like my attention, but none of them are him, so they are not good enough. it's fucked up and something that i know i have to get over. i tend to keep myself busy and i drown myself heavily in gaming because it occupies my mind. even gamimg was difficult to do for a while since we met in counterstrike 3 years ago.

i feel for you and hope you can work it out.

thanks owns.

[DJ_MikeyRevile]

learn how to make skins, and make a char skin that looks like her.. and play css all day?

[Nemesis]

learn how to make skins, and make a char skin that looks like her.. and play css all day?

wow this place would be so much better without you.

[DJ_MikeyRevile]

wow this place would be so much better without you.

lol i find humor in your pessimistic view on everything.

[Perry]

try being gay? im pretty sure blade is open....


but in all seriousness yes BREAK ALL TIES WITH HER. dont think about her dont talk about her, act like she never existed. it helps.

if you can, dont really talk to the people your both friends with. especially if they were her friend first.

[Nemesis]

lol i find humor in your pessimistic view on everything.

not everything. I like flowers...robot flowers...

[DJ_MikeyRevile]

robot flowers are pretty awesome i guess BUT STILL


and for you aco. i'm telling you, go out, have fun with friends, party bar, go "fishing" if ya know what i mean

it worked for me
should for you

[maynard]

try being gay? im pretty sure blade is open....


Lol... but seriously acolyte.. the only reason your still thinking about this chick from 2 years ago is cause you havn't found a new 1 in that time gap. move on, get a new woman. it's quite simple. you will continue 2 go through women till you find the right 1.

[Nemesis]

i also hear 9mm aspirin works wonders.

[Mrs. Xen_Warrior]

well then rent Dear John and fuck cry, seems more your style.

Haha aw, I did cry through that whole movie it was so sad! :wtg:

[DJ_MikeyRevile]

Haha aw, I did cry through that whole movie it was so sad! :wtg:

this thread isnt about you

[acolyte_to_jippity]

Lol... but seriously acolyte.. the only reason your still thinking about this chick from 2 years ago is cause you havn't found a new 1 in that time gap. move on, get a new woman. it's quite simple. you will continue 2 go through women till you find the right 1.

no no no no, we started going out 2 years ago. she broke up w/ me a month ago.

[DJ_MikeyRevile]

no no no no, we started going out 2 years ago. she broke up w/ me a month ago.

any ways man, best of luck to you. just takes time. thats the overall thing you need to know. time

[acolyte_to_jippity]

any ways man, best of luck to you. just takes time. thats the overall thing you need to know. time

thanks mate

[whytboiz33]

when you find some body or something better.

[acolyte_to_jippity]

when you find some body or something better.

you know, you're one of the last people i'd expect to post something like that. hell, i'd expect loka to do that before you. hmmm...interesting

[Hitman]

1) Break all ties with her. Yes you will think about her and shit, but she isn't worth it obviously.

2) Go out now since your a free man. WE ARE PREDATORS!!! (sorry girls) So go fucking have fun with your friends. Chase down as many skirts as you want. Want cougars? Go to Newport, RI the Jazz Bars on the piers are a great spot since they come all the way from Jamestown to pick up young guys <--LUV IT

3) Don't make the mistake of doing nothing at home. Dont watch romantic movies...betetr yet dont watch TV for a while. Stay away from the park during the days.

Important thing is to enjoy your new found freedom.

[maynard]

no no no no, we started going out 2 years ago. she broke up w/ me a month ago.

ooooooooo i c. well shit, you're still fresh in the break up so the pain is deff understandable.. just move on bro. find a nice new chick and you'll not even think about the ex.

[Kavinsky]

I think owns is right, but speaking from experence after falling seriously in love atleast 3 times the best thing to do is just forget it all.

Sever all ties (and try and remove anything that reminds you of them from your living quarters) none of this friends bullshit if you start thinking about them and all the times you had with them say to yourself it never happened and its all subjective, trust me it works.

To sum up: Cowboy up!



and if you think of yourself as a predator well don't come crying to me when the cops arrest ya.

[Spasm]

Soon you will realise that you are missing the woman part, more so then her. When you breakup with someone you have a whole left in your life, a whole left by a woman. The whole is not designed for just one person, when you find someone else, they will fill the void and you will feel much better. Don't be too down bro, just move on, you'll be ok :wtg:

[-=NYS=- C.O.]

GO watch porn and jerkoff. :icon_mrgreen:

[acolyte_to_jippity]

Soon you will realise that you are missing the woman part, more so then her. When you breakup with someone you have a whole left in your life, a whole left by a woman. The whole is not designed for just one person, when you find someone else, they will fill the void and you will feel much better. Don't be too down bro, just move on, you'll be ok :wtg:

no spasm, i'm not going to go out and find someone to fill my whole.


GO watch porn and jerkoff. :icon_mrgreen:

as i would have expected from you. thanks for trying to help at least.

[Spasm]

no spasm, i'm not going to go out and find someone to fill my whole.
.

Just saying that anyone can replace the feeling of a woman, it isn't necessarly her. Wasn't really saying to go do it right now, although I think it would help. Almost every bad breakup I have went through I have almost always found a girl I dated for a short amount of time to help me get over the girl I was with for a long time.

[-blink-]

this is how it works......the more u look at your items the more it brings back memories ....you'll stay like that till u find a better love .....everything else is temp...till then u better hardcore game..life just sucks at times....

[Christmas]

Get over it. She will NEVER be out of your mind. EVER. Get over it because you're a DUDE. Dudes don't sulk around about their emotions. They sleep around and hope it will subdue them to find someone better. Women sulk around. You are pretty much aware she wants nothing to do with you now that she gave you the whole enchilada of the gifts and now you're butt hurt about it because there is no second chance or second opportunity in the future.

I SWEAR to GOD you men get anal when you receive back gifts you gave her. Be happy you even got ANYTHING back. It is the ultimate CLOSURE. MOVE ON.

Personally, if it is a gift, they should do with it what they wish. It's THEIR gift.

Getting gifts I gave from my ex was like her saying "here, YOU throw this away." I don't fucking want it back. What use to I have of it?

[inthebutt]

hey aco you really wanna get over her??

simple solution bang your exes mom.

and make sure you put it in her butt that way you can tell your ex all about it and i'm sure you won't have anymore problems "thinking" about her you big pussy.

[maynard]

hey aco you really wanna get over her??

simple solution bang your exes mom.

and make sure you put it in her butt that way you can tell your ex all about it and i'm sure you won't have anymore problems "thinking" about her you big pussy.

Genius! simply genius:wtg:


ps.... I lol'ed

[DJ_MikeyRevile]

no spasm, i'm not going to go out and find someone to fill my whole.

....im sorry about your situation but i have to call this out BAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA read that over

[maynard]

....im sorry about your situation but i have to call this out BAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA read that over

tee hee

[THE HOLY SH**T!]

dont ask for help online.

[Hitman]

I think owns is right, but speaking from experence after falling seriously in love atleast 3 times the best thing to do is just forget it all.

Sever all ties (and try and remove anything that reminds you of them from your living quarters) none of this friends bullshit if you start thinking about them and all the times you had with them say to yourself it never happened and its all subjective, trust me it works.

To sum up: Cowboy up!



and if you think of yourself as a predator well don't come crying to me when the cops arrest ya.


Im untouchable here in Brooklyn LOL. I am a legend aorund these parts

[acolyte_to_jippity]

....im sorry about your situation but i have to call this out BAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA read that over

jusus christ mikey, i was hopeing that spasm'd say something like that in his reply, but apparently not.

[Kavinsky]

yeah actually hollys right never ask for this kinda advice on an open forum, your lucky you even got some straight advice rather than the BHAAHAHAAA thing.

[acolyte_to_jippity]

yeah actually hollys right never ask for this kinda advice on an open forum, your lucky you even got some straight advice rather than the BHAAHAHAAA thing.

as i said, i didn't expect many responses, didn't think i deserved any. i just had to say it.

[devour]

just had to drag your personal life onto an internet forum?

makes no sense.

[acolyte_to_jippity]

just had to drag your personal life onto an internet forum?

makes no sense.

i'm glad i did. it really did help.

[DeadEyeDeNNi$]

Winner for best advice here goes to...

Loka + 0wns, not in any special order.

There will always be a memory residue,
there will always be a dream or two,
but in the end the only thing that really matters is what you make of life through and through.

DED

PS~Wearing your heart on your sleeve too long WILL hurt you.

[hallwagner]

as i said, i didn't expect many responses, didn't think i deserved any. i just had to say it.

ask your friends irl, if u dont have any, theres priority 1 right there

[maynard]

yeah actually hollys right never ask for this kinda advice on an open forum, your lucky you even got some straight advice rather than the BHAAHAHAAA thing.

no doubt. eat a steak, adjust your shit, and go find a nice young lady and stop pouting and acting like a woman!

[Craig Boner]

bummp

[acolyte_to_jippity]

bummp

i got my answer craig. hence why i let this topic die

[Wicced]

lol wish my dog tags said something nice like that, even though thats a shitty way to find something like what you found. Oh and to answer your question, nothing ever stops hurting, especially when women leave you after you go away to try and do something for society (i.e. get a degree, volunteer work, military service) women suck for the most part and are so needy that if you leave for 5 minutes they get all depressed. Just find a new one later that isn't so fickle about everything and you'll be alright. . . or end up like me and only love the booze. mmmm vodka. . . nom nom nom.

[acolyte_to_jippity]

bummp


i got my answer craig. hence why i let this topic die


lol wish my dog tags said something nice like that, even though thats a shitty way to find something like what you found. Oh and to answer your question, nothing ever stops hurting, especially when women leave you after you go away to try and do something for society (i.e. get a degree, volunteer work, military service) women suck for the most part and are so needy that if you leave for 5 minutes they get all depressed. Just find a new one later that isn't so fickle about everything and you'll be alright. . . or end up like me and only love the booze. mmmm vodka. . . nom nom nom.

ummm, yeah. thanks for the advice mate, but it's pretty much resolved at this point