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brett friggin favre
10-18-2011, 08:04 PM
back home i had this really good friend who moved away when we were like 12 or something (i'm 19 now), and we stayed in contact for a few years but eventually just kinda lost touch. our mom's still talk though, and we just found out that his brother died over the weekend. i've been lucky to this point in my life that the only people i've known and lost were old. really old. like it wasn't a surprise, and that's easier to handle. but just to hear that someone 2 years older than me, who i knew pretty well...i mean i went over to their house quite a bit and my friend and his brother were always there, playing basketball or whatever...its just one of those things in life that makes you stop everything and ponder. who decided it was his time to go? who determined that a family should have their son, their brother taken away? who's to say it's not my turn next month, next week, tomorrow? idk i don't really have a point in posting this, just saying it's easy to lose sight of what's important in life and what's petty, and that sometimes the world just doesn't make any sense. i mean over a period of 6 or 7 years i watched this guy grow up, i watched him go from a carefree kid into his teenage years, i heard all about him finding his way in life and just all of a sudden all of that's gone.

sorry to be a debbie downer, but i'm just shaken up by this, and i want you all to know that each and every one of you has an effect on my life in one way or another. you all entertain me, give me something to look forward to every day, and even though it's a stupid little game, it's something that has great meaning in my life, for what it's worth.

Carmichal
10-18-2011, 08:20 PM
I'm sorry man it sucks to lose someone... it's hard to get over when they are that young, i understand, and it's really not fair.

I have to say i am very impressed that you see good in this (being thankful for the people in your life.)

acolyte_to_jippity
10-18-2011, 08:23 PM
how far away is this guy?

you should go for the funeral.

brett friggin favre
10-18-2011, 08:34 PM
how far away is this guy?

you should go for the funeral.

i would but he lived in rhode island, and his family lives in california. i'm between them, in texas.

Chikun
10-18-2011, 10:28 PM
Death is an inevitability.

Belphegor
10-19-2011, 12:39 AM
not to sound like a callous bastard or anything but, shit happens.

and sorry about your friend.

Rapedollar$
10-19-2011, 02:12 AM
death is the end state of this life. religious preference aside, death is the natural state. whether there is something else... meh.. people dieing sux... just remember them fondly for however long you mange to stay alive and that is an amazing homage to their lives in itself.

Steamer
10-19-2011, 05:36 PM
death is the end state of this life. religious preference aside, death is the natural state. whether there is something else... meh.. people dieing sux... just remember them fondly for however long you mange to stay alive and that is an amazing homage to their lives in itself.

This.

Hope all goes well with everything.