This seems like it's being made into a bigger deal than it's worth.

Shady, some people are able to take jokes, some people have no personalities.

Carmichal, getting a thicker skin over your vagina will help keep the sand out.

A rule of common sense for all; If you're going to be an admin you need to not let every little thing bother you or you wont have any fun at all. If you're going to speak to admins the way you speak to regular people, deal with the consequences that they may be little bitches and suck it up.