Best advice I can give, just go with the process of the system, no matter how unfair it may seem at first. If you've done nothing wrong and you have good counsel on your side everything will work itself out. You have to understand that people will throw charges around as a means of making you uncomfortable or riling you up to the point where you may not necessarily be charged, but they could paint a picture of just a fight where you are both at fault. The system ain't perfect, but if you go with the flow it will be fine, just need to keep calm, cool, and collected, but it sounds like you got that covered.
I hit Brett right in the feels.