Perhaps Krypton may penetrate your indestructible skull. We are spending alot of time and effort with these he said she said scenarios. I strongly recommend moving past it and onto to more pressing matters. matters that will help improve the quality of game play for future games. What and cyber, it was bound to happen with your game. It is natural for people to get pissed in bastard modded games. Perhaps bastard modding a game where the majority is still inexperienced wasn't the best idea. I propose we collectively create standardized rules, perhaps with a list of IBIS roles and hidden modifiers that can be used. That way players who choose to play can reference there role in a role dictionary of sorts.
Im not saying any of this will be easy but if people want to commit to future games that are professional and fun, it might be necessary. Im all for investing some time to do things right the first time.