No one's going to go through what is now more than two dozen demo's between the three of them. If it comes to the point where I do need to share, I'll be snipping out the abuse into a single video for easy viewing with the demos as backup to prove it happened.
As far as C.O.' backing you guy's up, he was arguing with his bitter enemy Stamp in the thread you reference. C.O. himself has rarely been on ZM in the last few months, which you'd notice if you read the thread Jame's made complaining about old ZM player's stats showing or his stats page for ZM:
http://www.ibisgaming.com/zm_stats/player.php?id=451
Even if C.O. was around, as I said you guys were on your best behavior when Whyt and Rico were on, so I doubt you'd be acting out in-front of C.O. either.
To the "you left when things were getting good", how would you know? You, Res and James have only been around since December or January, which is after the exodus to L4D. In fact, that's probably the only reason you guys could get on the server. Meanwhile, a large majority of regulars left in November and even the forums haven't recovered as noted by it's own stats.
To James, prove it. Post links to the threads with disrespect or demos as you guys demand. The only time I've ever got hostile with someone on the server was after they started crap in the open as well, and it was typically when they were abusing someone else as has been the case with Holy and Chelsea. Nor have I ever been muted, kicked or banned for disrespecting anyone (or for any other reason I might add), so perhaps you should be thrown in with these three for making up fallacious offenses to punish those that criticize.
Edit note: Spell check only works if it's misspelled. Thread != threat.