To be honest.
She has been getting better...around me at least.
I mean, she'll have an outburst every now and then, but I can usually shut her up quickly.
It's a slow progression....but I now think someone just needs to be patient with her.
I know James has been....but he's a bit too calm for her, I think.
She needs someone who can snap back at her with agression that matches her own. (yes I know that seems an insult to myself...but meh. I can admit my faults)
I can't say for certain how she asks with other admins, but I know how she does act from them telling me and me witnessing it, all I can say is how she acts with me.
And honestly, she's getting better.