That's ITB's call to take it that she is disrespecting. She didn't comply, and instead decided to throw a temper tantrum like a little child. When your asked to do something you do it. If you don't agree with it, take it up with a higher up. Exactly everything ZERO stated.

For the record, I know a community that will red flag someone for calling anyone a moron (guild associated or a fellow person of the community) and classify it as disrespecting the community, guild member, or player. It alleviated unwanted drama.