Need some advice...

[A Baby Panda]

And stop dating piece of shit drug dealers.

Words to live by

[walterbrunswick]

And stop dating piece of shit drug dealers.

I think Masta may have touched on a good point here.

[drcape/tony]

I usually take a stroll and think about what is bothering me. then try to think about what makes it better for me and others..

[Nemesis]

What's the best way to get over someone or something? Me I probably tried just about everything and nothing ever seems to work... It sux.

try some 9mm aspirin.

[DeadEyeDeNNi$]

All instances are different as are the people that go through any ordeal. Emotions, will, strength, mental and physical stamina all come into play and are different chemistry in each of us.

Within two years I lost a son, father, and uncle. Prior to that I lost a wife.

The things that saved me were keeping occupied mentally and physically to tire out both the mind and the body. Online gaming was a big part of that equation, along with alcohol, work, work, and work, then rinse and repeat.

Although the major loss (my 19 year old son) will never ever pass, time is an element that seems like it may eventually have an affect.

Some people go to therapists, priests, or other confidants that are in a profession to help.

Crying helps too no matter how macho you think you may be, let it out because if you keep it in it gets worse.

Anyway, that's what I have to offer. God knows that I've been up and down the road of sorrow many times.

Good luck

[Kavinsky]

Take some time off to think about your mistakes indepth and figure out what not to do next time.

Then Put it out of your mind permantly otherwise it will haunt you forerever and try again.

If that doesnt work try selective amnesia.

[Scrubbleboo]

I hate to be mean here (actually, I really don't care), but she hasn't posted here in a month and then comes in rambling attention grabbing shit like "How do you get over something or someone?" and you guys give her advice on how to get over shit? She's 22 years old; a grown ass woman. Getcha, drink some liquor, get your freak on with some random guy at the bar and don't look to the internet gaming forums for advice. Fuck almighty.

[OMGBEARS]

When I found out that my girlfriend of 2 years of whom I was about to ask to marry me was cheating on me I got pretty angry.

I'm still not completely over her. I've resigned myself to the fact that I'll never really be over her, she was simply too important to me. One 2 year rebound followed by a couple quick 2 month just-for-funzies flings last summer made me realize that I couldn't just eliminate her from my life. Since then I've made a concerted effort to bring her back into my life and thankfully she's done the same with me. We were best friends in College before we started dating and while we might never get back to that point, it's still nice to know that she's still there. For me, removing her from my life wasn't the answer, it was bringing her back into my life that worked.

Dennis is completely right -- each instance is different for each person; It's really about finding what works for you. This isn't even mentioning that not everyone has the ability to bring someone very important to them back into their lives after 3 years of essentially ignoring them as best you could. In the case of losing a family member it is even more difficult.

It's difficult to care about someone after you break up or lose someone so important and close to you for so long. But there is good news, at least. Once you are to the point where you can start caring again, you'll know. For instance, I found a girl who I actually care about - the first one in 3 years.

Plus she's pretty bangin' and quite fun in the sack.

[acolyte_to_jippity]

Plus she's pretty bangin' and quite fun in the sack.

you really killed the whole "serious" and compassionate tone right there dude.

i lold in lecture

[OMGBEARS]

A little comedic relief is never a bad thing. :P