Need some advice...

[KaMiKaZi_NiNjA]

either sit and think about it, or go find someone/thing new

[A Baby Panda]

I just keep myself busy until I find something better.

[ImGonnaGetCha]

either sit and think about it, or go find someone/thing new

I do but it just doesn't help, i just always wind up thinking about it no matter what. what do you guys do to get over something, thats all i want to know

[acolyte_to_jippity]

pick something to do...something new that you don't really have any experience w/. go out and do it. make sure its challenging enough to completely occupy your mind

[Ren]

Time, time, time. Sometimes it'll just take time. One of the most important things I learned is that it's okay to keep a secret bit of your heart for them, even after you've moved along and love someone else.

(And you'll eventually figure out that it wasn't meant to be.)

[KaMiKaZi_NiNjA]

I do but it just doesn't help, i just always wind up thinking about it no matter what. what do you guys do to get over something, thats all i want to know

Honestly You'll always remember these things that happen, its part of life all you can do is learn to live with it and move on. My High school sweetheart got married a year after we broke up. I think about her all the time but I don't let it consume me anymore.

It just takes time. Everything that hurts, hurts for a while, they always get better if you let them tho :P

I know its not what your looking for, but there's no quick fix for it. When you care so much in the first place letting go is the hard part.