All instances are different as are the people that go through any ordeal. Emotions, will, strength, mental and physical stamina all come into play and are different chemistry in each of us.

Within two years I lost a son, father, and uncle. Prior to that I lost a wife.

The things that saved me were keeping occupied mentally and physically to tire out both the mind and the body. Online gaming was a big part of that equation, along with alcohol, work, work, and work, then rinse and repeat.

Although the major loss (my 19 year old son) will never ever pass, time is an element that seems like it may eventually have an affect.

Some people go to therapists, priests, or other confidants that are in a profession to help.

Crying helps too no matter how macho you think you may be, let it out because if you keep it in it gets worse.

Anyway, that's what I have to offer. God knows that I've been up and down the road of sorrow many times.

Good luck