Mal not answering should not have made things worse. He wasn't breaking any rules nor doing anything wrong.
Why James asked? Who knows. Why Mallissin didn't answer...he stated numerous times he wanted to avoid an argument that he thought he saw being instigated by James.
Yes, both think they were right...as do everyone in an argument.
Personal distaste? I don't know their history nor do I care.
Truly, this thread should be viewed by ZERO...and then closed.