Need some advice...

[ImGonnaGetCha]

What's the best way to get over someone or something? Me I probably tried just about everything and nothing ever seems to work... It sux.

[KaMiKaZi_NiNjA]

either sit and think about it, or go find someone/thing new

[A Baby Panda]

I just keep myself busy until I find something better.

[ImGonnaGetCha]

either sit and think about it, or go find someone/thing new

I do but it just doesn't help, i just always wind up thinking about it no matter what. what do you guys do to get over something, thats all i want to know

[acolyte_to_jippity]

pick something to do...something new that you don't really have any experience w/. go out and do it. make sure its challenging enough to completely occupy your mind

[Ren]

Time, time, time. Sometimes it'll just take time. One of the most important things I learned is that it's okay to keep a secret bit of your heart for them, even after you've moved along and love someone else.

(And you'll eventually figure out that it wasn't meant to be.)

[maynard]

What's the best way to get over someone or something? Me I probably tried just about everything and nothing ever seems to work... It sux.

time.

[Curdy]

pondering about it all day dosen't help, second guessing wont help either, just keep yourself busy :wtg:

[XxMastagunzxX]

http://digitalheadbutt.files.wordpress.com/2007/11/alcohol-pringles.jpg

[uuntiltheendd]

^ and time. i still find myself thinking about my highschool girlfriend even though that stuff was about five years ago. :reddot:

[Andrew_Pavlik]

Time and occupying that time, it really is the only way. Also, sleep... getting consistent decent nights worth of sleep will help to.. trust me.

So take some OT at work, or really start focusing in on a hobby or start re-arranging or re-decorating a room in the house or something.

[walterbrunswick]

^ and time. i still find myself thinking about my highschool girlfriend even though that stuff was about five years ago. :reddot:

Time.

I still keep thinking about that (European) college girl I've had a few encounters with, but was too big of a chicken to ask out.

Still hurts to this day... almost a year after the fact...

[XxMastagunzxX]

^ and time. i still find myself thinking about my highschool girlfriend even though that stuff was about five years ago. :reddot:

I know what you mean...:headache:

[KaMiKaZi_NiNjA]

I do but it just doesn't help, i just always wind up thinking about it no matter what. what do you guys do to get over something, thats all i want to know

Honestly You'll always remember these things that happen, its part of life all you can do is learn to live with it and move on. My High school sweetheart got married a year after we broke up. I think about her all the time but I don't let it consume me anymore.

It just takes time. Everything that hurts, hurts for a while, they always get better if you let them tho :P

I know its not what your looking for, but there's no quick fix for it. When you care so much in the first place letting go is the hard part.

[Clone]

how close and how long were you together with this person? if it was more then 2 years it will take a year to get over them. You will miss them etc for one year and then things will look up.

If its a pet you will never get over them I know ;(

But things will look up and over time they will be forgotten and you will move on.

Anywho thats my two cents :D

Clone

[uuntiltheendd]

how close and how long were you together with this person? if it was more then 2 years it will take a year to get over them. You will miss them etc for one year and then things will look up.


i was with a girl for six months and i still think about her almost five years after. :banghead::reddot:

[Andrew_Pavlik]

If its a pet you will never get over them I know ;(

Clone

Pets are the worse :(

[Ren]

i was with a girl for six months and i still think about her almost five years after. :banghead::reddot:

Yeah, I was with a guy for 3.5 years and it took about twice that amount of time to move on. It just varies.

And then I realized, Hey, maybe a kid who memorizes 100 digits of pi isn't all that cool.

[Nemesis]

What's the best way to get over someone or something? Me I probably tried just about everything and nothing ever seems to work... It sux.

try some 9mm aspirin.

[DeadEyeDeNNi$]

All instances are different as are the people that go through any ordeal. Emotions, will, strength, mental and physical stamina all come into play and are different chemistry in each of us.

Within two years I lost a son, father, and uncle. Prior to that I lost a wife.

The things that saved me were keeping occupied mentally and physically to tire out both the mind and the body. Online gaming was a big part of that equation, along with alcohol, work, work, and work, then rinse and repeat.

Although the major loss (my 19 year old son) will never ever pass, time is an element that seems like it may eventually have an affect.

Some people go to therapists, priests, or other confidants that are in a profession to help.

Crying helps too no matter how macho you think you may be, let it out because if you keep it in it gets worse.

Anyway, that's what I have to offer. God knows that I've been up and down the road of sorrow many times.

Good luck :twocents: :alright:

[-=NYS=- C.O.]

try some 9mm aspirin.

LMAO!!

Get over it fools.

[Kavinsky]

Take some time off to think about your mistakes indepth and figure out what not to do next time.

Then Put it out of your mind permantly otherwise it will haunt you forerever and try again.

If that doesnt work try selective amnesia.

[Scrubbleboo]

I hate to be mean here (actually, I really don't care), but she hasn't posted here in a month and then comes in rambling attention grabbing shit like "How do you get over something or someone?" and you guys give her advice on how to get over shit? She's 22 years old; a grown ass woman. Getcha, drink some liquor, get your freak on with some random guy at the bar and don't look to the internet gaming forums for advice. Fuck almighty.

[Decoy]

Try drinking heavily. I heard this helps. If that doesn't work, keep drinking until you black out. If you do this long enough, you'll forget everything in no time.

[XxMastagunzxX]

And stop dating piece of shit drug dealers.

[A Baby Panda]

And stop dating piece of shit drug dealers.

Words to live by

[walterbrunswick]

And stop dating piece of shit drug dealers.

I think Masta may have touched on a good point here.

[uuntiltheendd]

I think Masta may have touched on a good point here.

i have a vague feeling that the drug dealer boyfriend isnt the only or the worst problem she has. :lmao:

[Poker$tar$]

get drunk and fuck a homeless guy.

[Rapedollar$]

drink until you dont feel feelings anymore... that and go blow some shit up... that always makes me feel better.

[Curdy]

first class advice from the poker man

[uuntiltheendd]

forgot to mention the ganja.

[loka]

Type kill in console.

[A Baby Panda]

drink until you dont feel feelings anymore... that and go blow some shit up... that always makes me feel better.

Actually this may be the best advice I've ever heard

[Rapedollar$]

i know right? i am just a pillar of Logic and knowledge...

[XxMastagunzxX]

Type kill in console.

:lmao: I lol'd

[Curdy]

lmao i did to masta good one loka

[walterbrunswick]

Get insanely drunk and rock out with Whitesnake!! (Turn up the volume really really loud!)

Tho' I keep searching for an answer
I never seem to find what I'm looking for.
Oh Lord, I pray you give me strength to carry on
'cos I know what it means to walk along the lonely street of dreams.

fNo4jGKvDzY

(This song was written for me ;)

[OMGBEARS]

When I found out that my girlfriend of 2 years of whom I was about to ask to marry me was cheating on me I got pretty angry.

I'm still not completely over her. I've resigned myself to the fact that I'll never really be over her, she was simply too important to me. One 2 year rebound followed by a couple quick 2 month just-for-funzies flings last summer made me realize that I couldn't just eliminate her from my life. Since then I've made a concerted effort to bring her back into my life and thankfully she's done the same with me. We were best friends in College before we started dating and while we might never get back to that point, it's still nice to know that she's still there. For me, removing her from my life wasn't the answer, it was bringing her back into my life that worked.

Dennis is completely right -- each instance is different for each person; It's really about finding what works for you. This isn't even mentioning that not everyone has the ability to bring someone very important to them back into their lives after 3 years of essentially ignoring them as best you could. In the case of losing a family member it is even more difficult.

It's difficult to care about someone after you break up or lose someone so important and close to you for so long. But there is good news, at least. Once you are to the point where you can start caring again, you'll know. For instance, I found a girl who I actually care about - the first one in 3 years.

Plus she's pretty bangin' and quite fun in the sack.

[acolyte_to_jippity]

Plus she's pretty bangin' and quite fun in the sack.

you really killed the whole "serious" and compassionate tone right there dude.

i lold in lecture

[OMGBEARS]

A little comedic relief is never a bad thing. :P

[drcape/tony]

I usually take a stroll and think about what is bothering me. then try to think about what makes it better for me and others..

[ImGonnaGetCha]

LoL Awwww! Thank you you guys for all of your support, its all so very much appreciated (well.. Most LoL). I'm sorry i didn't get back to you all sooner, i really didn't expect this much advice from you guys lol


Once again, Thank you All So MUCH *Hug*

[acolyte_to_jippity]

...for the record, what did you do?

[Bumpkin]

try some 9mm aspirin.

Masturbate before you do this.