Hodige I just wanna say its a shame two full beers got wasted, they were nothing but innocent bystanders.

I was taught never to physically hit a woman/girl. Never done it never will. But I have been on the receiving end of slaps.

The officer was right hodgie just accept you loses and walk away. Coming from an HR side though. This could lead or manifested into a lawsuit. If that chick had footage on video of anything that looked like you hitting her, she could potentially sue for physical harm. But this works in your favor as well, if the surveillance tape in the bar shows her throwing the first punch and keeping a steady barrage of hits on your roommate or you, than you could have a lawsuit against her. As with any lawsuit just keep in mind it could be a lengthy process and usually involves a nice lawyer fee.

Next time befriend an off-duty cop who has his taser.