Honestly the best way to deal with rage is just walking. but in your case, go outside and shovel the snow. great thing to do if your snoewd in.
Honestly the best way to deal with rage is just walking. but in your case, go outside and shovel the snow. great thing to do if your snoewd in.
chase.. here is what i do when i am inraged, feeling shitty about stuff going on, or just not that great. I find anything and everything to occupy the time and my mind from what ever it may be. Smoke a cig and go for a walk, it being winter is actually a benefit. Walking in the cold helps cool me down. Also coming to some realizations helps as well. Is it really worth being pissed about and is there anything you can do better regarding the situation. It takes two people to argue, and two people to mend the after-math of that argument.
Personal reform
I've done it multiple times in the last few days and didn't even get a thank you from my dad. If I did it again I would be doing him a favour without even the slightest gesture of appreciation. I just decided the best way to deal with my issues is to be completely independent.. Self-satisfaction is my anti-rage right now
I'd kill for a smoke right now but I quit.. I am going for a walk tomorrow morning to see if I can get this car financed.. Hopefully that will help my mood some more.
Fear is a Liar.
Seems like your dad is a root of the anger. Maybe a nice long talk with your dad would help.....
Make all your last demands for I will forsake you and I'll meet your eyes for the very first time, for the very last.
maynard <ibis>: they are awkward and last 2 damn long. I prefer thinner smaller ones
Oh no doubt he is. I've been as nice and respectful as I could be to him even when I've wanted to rip his throat out lately until I lost it on him today. He walks away before you can finish your sentence and gets upset whenever you ask him a question.
As I said, he has 0 communication with anybody in my family. Things get done when he wants them done and he has no respect for anybody else. I undestand why my brother and him haven't been friendly or gotten along with each other for more than 30 seconds in the last 4 or 5 years.
Fear is a Liar.
I just used to beat the shit out of people. Competitively, of course.
But three surgeries and a firm NO by family and doctors, now I just kind of... lounge about. Just dont get angry. Will power. All that bullshit. Yeah.