First of all, stop cursing because of that you get the gag in the first place and because you do it allot people tempt to gag you faster then other people because you do it so regular. Secondly if someone is destroying your cade while you being gagged record it or take screen shots and post it here, for that moment it is very frustrated but at least the guy who destroys the cade will get his warning/punishment.

And from my own experience at prime time hours it is very very difficult to keep the chat box in check there is so much one person can do if there 10 people chatting it is just so difficult to keep track of all of it. admins are just also people from flesh and blood, so my advice try to distance yourself from cursing all the time which make it so that admins want to gag you les fast when you go on rampage.