Jesus man you have a problem, just because a girl plays on a server, and puts emoticons in chat, doesn't mean they are "manipulating the guys on the server to do what they want" or that they are "pretending they like you so they do your bidding" I took a complaint, posted about it, what happens happens. But I understand if you feel dejected thinking a girl liked you over the internet, it happens to people allllll the time, and I personally find it hilarious. It greatly amuses me.