Originally Posted by
Erdenay
*Deep sigh*
Cat, please read. Note that I am actually trying to help you - none of this is intended to be offencive.
First of all, one of the main things that a lot of people dislike is your attitude: you tend to barge in anywhere and everywhere, a lot of times uninvited and with nothing constructive to post. Quantity does not compensate for quality - it's better to think through what you'll post. Don't post anything and try not to derail the topic - and if you don't have anything constructive to say, then don't post. Notice that most of other people in the community (note the word most) tend to not post unless they have something funny to say, something constructive to add or post an interesting idea. This brings me to my 2nd point...
You have no sense of humour whatsoever. Even when people are joking, you go right into insults - lighten up a little bit and be able to take some banter. It's quite fun for a lot of people to tease others who react with fire even to the lightest joke and that's one of the reasons why you get so much stick.
Thirdly - if someone is purely flaming you, just ignore it. A lot of people offered you constructive criticism before, but you chose to ignore that - but as soon as someone calls you a retard, you do the same and then we have an additional 20 pages of worthless posts. If you will stop responding, people will stop posting.
Another thing that personally gets under my nerves (and quite a few other people don't like that too, I imagine) is your grammar (or lack of it). Your posts are a torture to read - it hurts my eyes. It's not that your grammar is bad - it's very, very, very bad - virtually every sentence has errors in syntax, punctuation or just lack coherence in general. Try to work on it - it WILL be useful in life later too, so the sooner you'll start, the better. We all make mistakes and it's fine if you do too - but when nearly every word is a mistake... It gets frustrating.
Lastly, you are very ignorant. You are quite selective in what you want to hear and what you choose not to - and when other people try to point out why and how, you normally ignore them and then flame them. If one person tells you something, you can normally ignore. If 2 people tell you the same thing, you should at least consider it. If 3 people tell you the same thing, you should probably look into it... And if 4 people tell you the same thing, you probably are wrong... (There are exceptions, but those are very rare and I am willing to bet you will never reach the level of someone like Nikola Tesla, Gregor Mendel or Albert Einstein)
Now it's your choice whether you want to listen and read any of this or ignore it.
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